Dating experts Selina and Vicki of Project Love – an online course that helps you totally change how you think about love and dating – explained to uk that online dating has helped benching become more common than ever before.
If you do suspect you’re being benched – and you’ll be able to tell if the IRL meetups become less frequent, texts go unanswered, but they’ll suddenly get in touch just as you’re about to give up – Selina and Vicki have some advice.
‘If you suspect that you’re being benched, then suggest a coffee date as quickly as you can.
Women not only spent less time looking at a man’s face (when compared with men looking at women); they also moved more quickly onto his other body parts. “So take in her breasts or legs, but don’t dwell on them.” And make the most of your assets, too.
“Wear well-fitting shirts, and don’t be shy about using your jeans to show off whatever nature gave you.” OLD: Online dating.
“Sometimes women, like men, drop their standards so they can get what they want sooner,” Kerner says.
“So if a gorgeous woman is on the hunt for a date and you can respond quickly, you might strike it lucky with a woman who’s actually way out of your league.” OLD: Talking Dirty.Mobile dating apps allow you to see who’s online and in the vicinity, improving your chances of landing a really good catch.It also means every night is “date night.” So the way it used to work—with time to plan what you’d wear, where you’d take her, and so on—has changed. Keep a change of clothes at work, along with some deodorizing wipes and mouthwash, because who knows what’s in store.Just when you’re giving up, you’ll get a noncommital but flirty text.They’ll make the minimum effort required to keep you as an available option – which often means no face-to-face contact, just frequent texts about plans to meet up that never end up happening.NEW: Sexting.● Talking dirty had one major advantage over sexting—you got to see her response.