On the street I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.Generally, these women will be dressed formally, but fashionably.I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.
It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.
Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.
The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from girls here in Medellin.
It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.
NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2013.
Over the past 5 years I’ve dated many Colombian women and I frequently update this post.Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! This is a big plus for me here because I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker, and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self.Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.Here in Medellin you do NOT need to play that game.It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.