Open up with them and they’ll open up with you, and you’ll build an unbreakable bond of trust to start your relationship.
As a reborn shy-guy myself, I can also tell you that these are some of the most loyal, caring and passionate men you can find. Let’s get one common misconception about how to date a shy guy out of the way first.
Shy guys are shy around new people and in new situations.
Once I spend some time with them, I begin to open up more and more.
Of course, there are those occasions where I open up with someone right away.
You are not going to have a shy guy approach you at a bar. Thankfully, the world of online dating was created which gives us shy guys a fighting chance at actually meeting women.
(If you are looking for an online dating site to try, be sure to check out my dating chart first, so you can find the site that matches you best.) Open a free account and try Date.com, the largest online dating site Once you find a shy guy online, or he finds you, be aware that it will be easier to talk to him through social media – Facebook, Twitter, etc. Talking on the phone just isn’t one of our strong suits.
I’m sure I said something dumb and was partially messing up words. Was it because I sounded like a fool on the voicemail? The point is, the shy guy is going to mess up due to nerves and you need to understand this and accept it.
One of the most popular posts on the blog is one about why a guy hasn’t called after a date.
That makes me sad to think that one of the biggest problems in dating is that people don’t have the courtesy to call someone and be honest.
While some guys may not call as a sign that they don’t want to see you again, it’s not so simple with a shy guy.
If finding a shy guy to date weren’t hard enough, dating a shy guy is different than dating someone who is outgoing or the typical alpha-male.
You’ve got two things going for you though if you’re willing to learn how to date a shy guy. They’re just not great at meeting new people and coming out of their shell.
Taking Initiative Accepting His Temperament Easing His Nerves Introducing Him to Your Friends and Family Community Q&A Maybe you’ve been dating a shy guy for a few months, or maybe you’ve got a crush on a friend who is shy and you want to ask him out.