Tell your child that you have a friend who’s an expert player and he’s going to be joining you for a few games.
Team up with your kid to challenge your guy and if all goes well suggest he then team up with your kid. Have your new man stop by to watch the fun and make a quick introduction.
After the Relationship Ends: What do we Tell the Kids?
The problem, of course, is what to do after the relationship breaks up?
It’s best not to have him attend your kid’s school function or sports matches.
The focus of those activities should be on your children, plus you may not want to expose him to your ex just yet. It’s doesn’t take long to eat a cone and who doesn’t love ice cream?!
It’s never too early to teach your kids the gift of giving back.
Engage your children in an hour of volunteer activities at your church, local animal rescue, or cooperative garden.Have your new man join you to work side by side for a half hour or so.Have your new guy join up with you and your kids for a half hour stroll along the vendor’s tables.They meet, and a few months later, introduce their new partner to their kids.When it works out, the kids benefit from having more adults in their lives.Using the BF word too early in the conversation can be perceived as too threatening to your children. Bring a toy or game to distract your children, should the new introduction not go as you would have hoped. Keep in mind that the introduction can be as stressful for your new guy as it is for your kids.