There is a good chance of success for the two of you, if your husband accepts responsibility for what he has done and if the two of you are willing to work hard on improving your marriage.
Recently, I discovered that my husband has been using adult chat rooms online and seems to have been communicating in sexually explicit ways with other people.
When I challenged him, he was embarrassed and then defensive saying it was just harmless flirting and that he had not gone over any line.
When this happens frequently, it can lead to a reduction in their sex-life together, a growing sense of disconnection and an erosion of the marital bond.
Improving the marriage The discovery of your husband’s online world is a crisis in your marriage but it can also represent an opportunity.
Berlin's local press has been full of talk of unrest in the police force in recent days, with accusations being levelled against recruits from Arabic families.
But the police chiefs say that the rumours are being fuelled by racism.However, creating this intimacy is hard work and much harder than the easy escapism of the internet or watching TV or even over-working or domestic chores.Real intimacy is created in everyday communication, in the nitty-gritty of sharing a life together and in the hard work of resolving conflicts and accepting the other person as different to you.In addition, try to have at least one special evening a week when you get a baby-sitter when you can do some new things together. The biggest prize of a successful marriage is closeness and intimacy – which allow a couple to accept and support one another on a deep level.Such intimacy is built on communication and friendship and leads to deep affection and a satisfying sex life.Though it may be painful, the fact that you have started talking about issues is a good sign.