Social media has opened wonderful doors of connection, so, don’t be afraid to look up a single high school friend and even consider attending your next reunion or class event.Use Linked In to casually say hi to interesting men you’ve met at events.
You will find out soon enough if they are married or committed, so, for now, just be friendly and see what happens.
Let single girlfriends know that you are actively looking for a relationship – maybe they know someone who is perfect for you!
For example, three simple ideas for creating dating opportunities include smiling genuinely, approaching men first and learning the art of flirting.
His assessment requires a fundamental shift in thinking – women must not be afraid to make the first move!
So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?
Here are a few ideas to help you get the hang of dating after 60.Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).Many men come in every day to get their cup of chai or latte. Start a casual conversation with the man standing in line and smile! At this point, you’re just looking to make a friendly connection.Other paid sites, like EHarmony.com, and Chemistry.com, ask you to take a personality test before they look for “matches” for you.There are also faith-based sites like Christian and where members can write and respond to anyone.Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.