Bette Davis once said that getting old is not for sissies.
Lisa tells us - "The only purpose of a first date is to get to a second. You may have a family, responsibilities, have travelled the world, been divorced - who knows!
You won't know if he's the one, you'll just be able to work out if you have chemistry with him." Caroline says, "First dates are really just a chance to see whether you would like to get to know one another more, so focus on having a laugh together instead. Anyone dating in their 50s is going to know that you have a past, but there's no need to divulge everything just yet." "You'll be surprised how willing people are to play Cilla!
There are lots of great dating sites for over 50s, and more ways than ever to meet new people, so now might be a better time than ever before to get yourself out there...
So we spoke to dating expert and matchmaker at dating agency Mutual Attraction Caroline Brearley, and dating over 50s expert Lisa Copeland (findaqualityman.com), to get their expert opinion on just how to date when you're over 50...
It's difficult to meet people these days, which seems crazy given how we seem to be more connected than ever," Caroline told us."But if you would prefer to meet people organically, a great place to start is to ask friends to play matchmaker.
Plus, having someone to talk to and share your dating experiences with, can be the biggest confidence boost of all.
We find in this age group men and women are more likely to go on second and third dates with someone, as they're more willing to take the time to get to know someone." Perhaps life experience really can help contribute to a better dating life...
So what the best way to go about dating when you're over 50? Caroline says, "We at Mutual Attraction find that women who haven't really dated before (because they've been married for years previously, for example) are either totally petrified at the thought of it, incredibly excited, or more commonly a combination of both." "I would encourage women who haven't dated before to just really embrace it, to say yes to meeting new people and new opportunities, and to enjoy it.
Try Woman and Home's dating website, Woman and Home Plus One to meet people your age, websites like e Harmony, specialist countryside dating site Muddy Matches, or specialist 50 site, Fifty Dating.
Lisa agrees that "Online dating sites are the best places to get started, as there are a huge range of men on them." Caroline says, "Every woman has their own character and personality that shines through in their clothes and accessorizes.
A survey by the Today Show in America found that only 18% of women will admit to dating in their 50s.