Use that scientific discovery to your own advantage, by starting your email with a “Hello [Username]” and not a non-specific “Hi.” If you want to create a feeling of warmth, shorten their name, use its initials, or create a nickname based on one of their interests. Everyone loves to read about themselves, so don’t begin your message by launching straight in about you.
Instead, start by saying what caught your eye about their profile.
If you swipe on someone, be prepared to message them first.
There’s nothing more juvenile than two people waiting for the other person to respond.
If there’s a reason you’ve swiped on a person (besides obviously finding them attractive), start there. You might want to go with the canned response route.
One of my favorite lines, given to me from a colleague, is just using a person’s name with an exclamation point. ” is friendly without being creepy; it’s sort of personalized, but also takes zero effort.
Struggling to think of the right thing to say to an attractive match?
Here’s match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor with dating advice on how to give great copy.
I advised any would-be daters against using the line because really, where’s the originality?
As the show — and that joke — grow in popularity, your chances of standing out by using it are dropping drastically. There are far more reasons to ignore someone you’ve matched with than there are reasons to engage. Was that swipe an accident, or a mischievous friend?
Tailor it to their interests or their work, or even one of their photos.