Most guys leave this to chance; they rely on luck or hope.
The opener is quite simply the first words that come out of your mouth.
” And the interaction always seemed to go badly after that.
This one puts them on the spot slightly and then releases the tension; they’ll laugh if it’s delivered right. Opinion Openers Opinion openers, a subcategory of indirect openers, are the easiest way for a newbie to start a conversation in a quiet club or bar.
They’re good in that they can get a long conversation started pretty easily.
It’s very flexible and also very engaging because it hits a great topic—shopping and gifts!
Direct Openers It took a while before I had the confidence to deliver a direct opener.
” This is a fantastic opener that leads straight into relationship talk and has a lot of drama built in.
What kind of present should I get for my friend’s girlfriend? My best friend had to rush away on business—he’s got the biggest business deal of his life going—and he’s asked me a massive favor.
My friend is coming in an hour and he needs my advice.
He’s known his girlfriend for three months and he’s going to ask her to marry him tomorrow.
On the other hand, if I say it’s a good idea and it doesn’t work out, I’ll feel responsible.