They don't like to go to a club to find such a short-term relationship that last for one or two nights.
What serious singles want to look for is a long term relationship.
‘If a guy is going out with a woman in her late 30s, it is hardly going to be a surprise that she might also want children.’With that in mind, I decided to be honest about my desire for marriage and children — with surprising results.
No, men will run a mile.’ She paused, then added: ‘Sorry, dear.’ I’ve never been someone who absolutely has to be in a relationship.
Whenever I was between boyfriends in the past, I would just enjoy life until another man came along — through work, mutual friends or our eyes meeting across a crowded room.
So try it out, you maybe be surprised with who you meet.
‘Men want someone who is fertile but who doesn’t want children just yet,’ she continued.
‘So they want women in their late 20s or early 30s.
Why would they like someone who, if she can still have children, would need to have them straight away?Dating online is an obvious and proven solution for getting shy people dates, but more than that it's an area where you can feel comfortable to be yourself, without anyone giving you a difficult time.When starting to chat to someone on our site you will always be pushed forward by remembering that everyone on our site is here because they are shy as well, or are looking to date shy people, so they completely understand that initiating conversation isn't going to be easy for everyone.Thankfully for women who are the far side of 30, James says it is ‘absolute rubbish’ that they have no chance of finding love.‘There are many men out there who are bored with having meaningless affairs and who want to settle down and have children too,’ he says.I felt that to continue going out with him would have been unfair to both of us, so I ended our relationship. Many people — including my mother and best friend — accused me of being too fussy, and said that I should stick with Simon, as he ticked so many boxes.