When it happens and you do finally meet her, two things have to go down: One, you sure as hell want the feeling to be mutual, and two, you must have what it takes to not only catch her attention, but also hold on to it.
This is your life, and your future…not your friend's.
I'm not saying the girl you meet will end up being there for the rest of your life. Trust me, if she wants to take this a step further -- as in a "legit" date -- you will definitely feel the vibe.
Embrace the girlfriend situation with a positive attitude, and positive things will come your way. Need I repeat: confident AF = hot AF = A boyfriend material.
I cannot stress this enough: There's nothing sexier than a guy who's confident. Which leads to my next point…Babe Ruth once said, "Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."Take control and confront anything that's holding you back, whether it's the fear of rejection or another insecurity.
You don't want to miss out on a potentially spectacular relationship because you waited too long…and she met someone else in the process.
You do because when it comes down to it, people who don't have your best interests at hand…well, f*ck them.
She may not be forward, but that doesn't mean she's not interested.
These are all crucial steps that lead to the ultimate goal: getting a girlfriend.
Keep in mind that she will be the person you'll be sharing a lot of your life with, and she'll be opening up hers to you, too.
For all of my guys out there thinking they can't get a girlfriend, here's my advice for you: Cut loose any strings that are tying you down because it's all unnecessary baggage. Put yourself out there, and you may even surprise yourself.
Needless to say, an attraction you have with a girl must be mutual..you have to work for it.