Because holding on to that baggage can be paralyzing; it can cripple you and keep you from performing in your next encounter.You simply cannot drive forward if you're focused on what's happening in the rearview mirror.” ― Steve Harvey, “Women want their love to be reciprocated in the same way they give it; they want their romantic lives to be as rewarding as they make them for their potential mates; they want the emotions that they turn on full blast to be met with the same intensity; and they expect the premium they put on commitment to be equally adhered to, valued, and respected.” ― Steve Harvey, “All you have to do is speak up.Y'all put the police to shame, make the little investigative tricks they show on CSI and Law & Order: SVU look like counting lessons on Sesame Street.” ― Steve Harvey, “Women can go over it again and again in their minds, finding all kinds of deficiencies in themselves-"I didn't do this right," "I wasn't good enough," "I didn't love him the way I should," "she came in here and outperformed me"-but the fact still remeinas that he didn't have any business cheating.
(Don't hate the player, hate the game.) When a man approaches you you're the one with total control over the situation-whether he can talk to you, buy you a drink, dance with you, get your number, take you home, see you again, all of that.
We certainly want these things from you; that's why we talked to you in the first place.
After all, it's universal knowledge that when mama is happy, everybody is happy.
And it is my sole mission in life to make sure Marjorie is happy.” ― Steve Harvey, “Providing for the ones he loves and care about, whether it's monetarily or with sweat equity, is part of a man's DNA, and if he loves and cares for you, this man will provide for you all these things with no limits.” ― Steve Harvey, “A man fishes for two reasons: he’s either sport fishing or fishing to eat, which means he’s either going to try to catch the biggest fish he can, take a picture of it, admire it with his buddies and toss it back to sea, or he’s going to take that fish on home, scale it, fillet it, toss it in some cornmeal, fry it up, and put it on his plate.
Tell him straight up: "I need you here to protect and provide for us, to give us security in our lives, to help raise these children, to set an example for this boy, who needs to see what real men do, and for this girl, who needs to know what a real man is so she can find one of her own someday.
I need you to be the head of this family."Lay it out like this, and your requirements will trump his mother's every time.” ― Steve Harvey, “Newsflash: it's not the guy who determines whether you're a sports fisher or a keeper-it's you.
On a smaller scale she also made it clear that she expected to be treated like a lady at every turn-I'm talking opening car doors for her, pulling out her seat when she's ready to sit at the table, coming correct on anniversary, Mother's Day, and birthday gifts, keeping the foul talk to a minimum.
These requirements are important to her because they lay out a virtual map of what I need to do to make sure she gets what she needs and wants.
” ― Steve Harvey, “All I'm telling you to do is to be smart about it.
Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate.
And if you’re her man and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you?