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So I tried again with another group, and then another. After downing a drink (or two), I decided to try again with another group.
After a couple of minutes, we were all introducing ourselves and hitting it off like old friends.
“My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. ” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. They even began debating each other and trying to argue their viewpoints playfully to me.
We all do it, it’s not a big deal.” As I awaited the wrath of three women, I was surprised to hear them laughing and sharing their opinions.
(Examples go from lighter to heavier) Remember that these subjects often trigger feelings of shame and defensiveness.
Sometimes, you will be met with hesitation and surprise when asking a woman a more intimate question.
But to consider having sex with you, a woman has to about sex — especially with you.
She can only do that if you show her that sexual conversations aren’t shameful.
Because of this, women often won’t signal their interest first.